Friday, August 30, 2013

Free Yourself from Fear

Fear is necessary. It is good to have enough fear to stay safe while driving or riding a bike, or to be cautious around other situations that can harm us. We evolved with the ‘fight or flight’ response to protect us from immediate dangers. Fear can also be good to push us out of our comfort zone with worthwhile activities for an adventurous, fulfilling life. For example: public speaking, international volunteering, or playing an instrument on stage.

However, we have become a society where fear pervades every aspect of our lives, even for the most unlikely of instances. When we live in fear, and fail to confront our fears, we give up our freedom and peace of mind.

We spend a ridiculous amount of money on home alarms, car alarms and gated communities with security guards.  This is a result of accumulating stuff, but mostly, we are putting so much importance on that stuff that we feel we need to isolate ourselves.

Also, thanks to our sensationalist 24 hour news broadcasts, we are also afraid to let our children play outside or walk to school. This leads to further isolation in our communities, which actually makes us less safe. What a catch-22!  

What can we do? We can adopt a simple lifestyle, be a risk taker and embrace community.

The best thing about taking the approach to a simple life is that I live in content every day. I have almost eliminated the irrational fear in my life. I still have appropriate fear to keep me safe while riding my bike and to understand the importance of a healthy diet and regular exercise, but I don’t have that fear of being robbed, getting my car stolen,  not having enough money, or all the other ‘what ifs’ that we place on ourselves for the future.

To me, a simple life means that I don’t have a lot of things and I don’t have attachment to any of it. It is all replaceable... period. I know that most of my life’s desires can be accomplished relatively cheaply and the best things in life truly are free. So while I like to work, I work because I want to work, not because I have to work. I do not stress over getting or losing a job with a big salary or spending 40 years slowly accumulating money in the bank that I may never live to see or have the energy to enjoy. The things that are most important to me are the things money can’t buy: family, friends, health and control over my own work schedule and location.

I’m a risk taker. I took a risk investing in rental properties and it paid off. I then took a risk and quit my job to work as a freelancer. I still have fear with public speaking and pitching my business services and products, but I confront the fear and move forward anyway.

I embrace community. Getting to know your neighbors will provide more security and safety than any alarm system can provide and it is free and comes with peace of mind.

I live in the moment and love just about every minute of it. That is true freedom.

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Slow Down for Increased Productivity

Many people may associate doing things slower as slacking off, or laziness, however, that is far from the truth. We live in such a hurried world that is far from how we evolved. This busyness is not bringing us any greater productivity, if anything it is a contributor to increasing rates of illness, debt and unhappiness among modern cultures. These are disastrous for productivity. If we slowed down, worked less hours, and scheduled less events, then we would actually be more rested, have more energy and have time for focus, reflection and contemplation. 

Check out this parable about the Mexican fisherman and the investment banker: www.renewablewealth.com/the-parable-of-the-mexican-fisherman

The slow movement started with slow food as resistance to fast food restaurants popping up all over the world. But, since then, the slow movement has gone on to capture slow money, slow art and slow building. Basically, the slow movement concept embodies a more natural and instinctual way for us to live to combat modern stresses and live healthier, wealthier and happier lives.

This is about quality.

We can’t achieve the same quality in a hurried world, so if we want increased productivity and a sustainable economy, then we need to slow down. Here is an illustration of that point: If corporations were to cut the 40 week work week down by about 5 hours or so, they will see that productivity will actually increase, at no cost to the company or the workers. Reduced work hours (even with a pay cut) will increase our health and happiness, which money can’t buy. That is true wealth.

How do we achieve this balance?

Start with the work place. Can you get part time hours? Can you ask for a few days of telecommuting to save the time spent getting ready for work and driving to and from the office? Companies would be smart to offer these options more often so that they can reduce absenteeism, increase productivity and reduce costly turnover rates.  Even better, can you try working freelance or build up residual income (see previous post)?

Next, once you have more time from reduced work hours, try to use the extra time to slow down in other aspects of your life.

Can you slow down with your family? Can you walk or ride a bike to pick up your kids from school so that you and the kids are getting more exercise? Can you schedule unstructured play time for the kids?

How about errands? Can you walk or bike to the store? Can you avoid/donate clothes that need dry cleaning? Can you cut down on time spent shopping for stuff?

What about meals? Can you plant a garden or spend a leisurely Saturday morning at a community farmers market getting to know the people who grow your food? Can you spend time making meals from whole, fresh ingredients? Can you get your family to help with meal preparation?

How about the household chores? Try letting the grass grow taller. You will save time mowing it every week, but also, you will cut down on the need to water the grass and to use fertilizer. Better yet, replace the grass with a low maintenance natural ecosystem. If you move to a smaller dwelling, you will have less cleaning and maintenance both inside and out.

There are many other ways to achieve this slower paced life, but I also recommend spending less time watching TV, or better yet, get rid of it altogether (see previous post).

You will find that incorporating these concepts into your life will profoundly simplify your life so that you can truly achieve optimum health, wealth and happiness.

You will gain health through more physical exercise and healthier eating. You will save money on driving, gym memberships, eating out and home maintenance services. You will gain a tremendous sense of happiness from a more balanced life. 

 

Thursday, August 22, 2013

Car Free Commuting Tips to Prevent or Reverse Diabetes

A couple of weeks ago, I posted about going car free. After that post, I had a conversation with someone who said that they themself and their spouse have diabetes. In the same conversation, I happened to mention all the exercise I am getting with my new car-free lifestyle. What I found interesting was that this person made a point to talk about being safe on a bicycle because cars don’t look for cyclists. Well, I know the intention was well placed, but the paradox is that people often have images of the single accident that can injure you, but forget that our modern sedentary lifestyle is the real killer here, it just happens passively over time.

I do agree though about being safe and I will not try to minimize the risks of commuting by bicycle. However, we must remember that besides the health impacts of too much driving, car accidents are one of the top causes of preventable deaths in adults and children. Add in accidents that cause life-long injuries and bicycling starts to sound benign in comparison, mostly due to the safety precautions listed at the end of this post. If bicycling sounds too risky to anyone, then you can always go car free with walking, running, public transportation and carpooling. I personally like bicycling and find it to be an extremely efficient form of transportation, and fun! I am very cautious and I think the health, wealth and happiness benefits far outweigh the small chance of an unavoidable accident. I would rather do what I can do to avoid diabetes later, but more importantly feel better now.
As this conversation reminded me though, car drivers don’t always look for cyclists and pedestrians. I do think that cycling, and particularly walking and running, are much safer than driving, however, we do need to take safety into consideration with everything we do.  

As both a pedestrian and a cyclist, never use a cell phone while in motion, even hands free. Talking on the phone will take away your ability to pay full attention to your surroundings and possible hazards that could cause a fall or crash. Additionally, support stricter laws that make it illegal for drivers to use cell phones in the car, even hands free, which causes distraction for the driver and poses a significant safety risk for pedestrians, cyclists and other drivers. I know we all feel this need to be able to stay in touch all the time, but remember with a simpler life, you will have more time to make those phone calls in the privacy of your own home where you can give your full attention to that person. A future post will go into much more detail about the hazards of cell phones and how to optimize and limit use.

As a pedestrian, safety is somewhat simple. As I stated above, don’t use a cell phone while walking, even hands free. Actively look for cars and always expect that a car will not see or stop for pedestrians. We need to be defensive and not assume our right away will always be granted, even if it is the law.

Bicycling takes a bit more thought to stay safe, so I have a list of safety suggestions at the end of this post. However, I also strongly recommend that everyone take a bike safety class or find an online forum to learn from other people’s experience. There are many other tips from more experienced riders that I have omitted in this post including wearing brightly colored clothing, carrying a repair kit, riding at night and how to safeguard against theft. Knowledge is power.

If you incorporate these simple strategies and those listed below into your commuting routine, then you will significantly reduce your chance of an accident, and diabetes!


Bicycling safety tips:

1.       ALWAYS wear a helmet: Try not to make excuses on this one. Buy a new helmet so that there is not a chance of previous damage and replace every couple of years. Get it fitted properly and learn how to properly fasten.

 

2.       Ride like a pedestrian: I have been able to find routes that allow me to stay off the streets about 90% of the time. When I am not on trails, I ride slowly on sidewalks, except for pedestrian heavy business districts where, I will either ride cautiously in the street, or walk my bike on the sidewalk. I use pedestrian crosswalks instead of riding in a traffic lane. I ride a hybrid so that I can ride on non-paved terrain when needed. (Road bikes keep you strictly in the street.) Yes, riding like a pedestrian takes a little more time and is not quite as time or energy efficient, but if you take the principles to slow down in life and work less hours, then the time won’t matter and the inefficiency will only give you a better workout. Long term health and safety is optimized with this approach. Just remember to never compromise the safety of a pedestrian.

 

3.       When in the streets: There are times where you just have no option, but to get in the street. Avoid major streets and highways where there is heavy, fast moving traffic. Only go on roads that are designated as bike routes and have clearly marked paths with ample room for a bike lane. Make sure to signal your turning intentions and always ride in the same direction as the flow of traffic. Watch out for people in parked cars who may open their door without looking for cyclists.

 

4.       When on the off road paths: Bike paths are great, but remember, that they are actually mixed use paths, so you will find walkers, runners, in-line skaters, dogs, baby carriages and all ages of people. Remember to respect others for their use of the path and keep speeds slower than 15 mph. Always ride to the right and pass on the left, but look behind you and in front of you first before moving to the left. Identify yourself to the pedestrian when you pass, but do not shout as that startles the pedestrian and could cause them to step in front of you. Pedestrians should give the same consideration and look both ways before crossing or changing locations in a lane. Bike paths are not for training speeds. If you want to train, then find a good road. This blog is not about competition, so I won’t elaborate.

 

5.       Get a tune-up at least once or twice a year. Talk to a professional for an optimum schedule for your riding habits. Tune-ups and bicycle repairs are a fraction of the costs of owning a car, so you can stay safe and still be money ahead… way ahead. It is important to make sure that your gears are shifting properly, your wheels are aligned and brakes in good working condition. Brake pads and tires wear out from both use and the outside elements, so make sure to replace when recommended. If a bike has been sitting idle for a while, it is best to have a professional do a safety check.

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Creating Sustainable Income for Financial Freedom

Even though I have never been let go from a job, I still see the reality that working for someone else, or exchanging an hour of time for an hour of pay, may not always be sustainable. No job is 100% secure that you know you will never be affected by layoffs, downsizing or furloughs. Even if you aren’t affected by a potential layoff, organizations change and people change; a job or career that you once loved, could turn into a daily grind that is slowly killing you from boredom, stress or lack of physical exercise. Even with freelancing, you need to find someone to want to buy your services or products, and when the market demand changes, then you stop getting income.

Therefore, the most practical way to create a sustainable income is to diversify and build up residual income. This must be done so in a way that is environmentally and socially responsible for true sustainability.

I don’t like the term ‘passive’ income, because I really don’t think there is such a thing as a financial windfall that requires zero monitoring whatsoever. Even if you win the lottery or have a trust fund, you will most likely need to manage your earnings. And if there is such a thing as ‘passive’ income, I’m sure that very few people in the world get the opportunity to experience this.
With that said, residual income is income that comes in steady every month, without having to trade an hour of time for an hour of pay. You will still need to work for residual income, but you can put in a few hours up front and a few more per month for continued income for life.

There are many kinds of residual income, but there are three that I decided to focus on because I could incorporate environmentally and socially conscious business practices into these areas:

-          Residential rental properties

-          Information products

-          Selling products that you do not manufacture

The key is not to see someone else making good money and then say “I want that also”, so you jump on board too quickly. The key is to find something that you really enjoy; something that you don’t mind spending hours researching and want to continue spending a lifetime of learning for improvement. This is why I can’t stress enough that this is not ‘passive’ income, but rather ‘active’ work to create income, in an environmentally and socially conscious way. The beauty is that you will be working on your terms, not someone else’s. There is no better freedom than that.
RENTAL PROPERTIES – This has created the minimum starting residual income that I needed to cover my basic expenses and quit my job, while I work on other endeavors. I focus on rental properties that fit in with simple and environmentally and socially conscious living. The properties I own with my partner are all attached condos, so there is very little to be responsible for in terms of maintenance. Yes, we pay a monthly fee, but it is worth it for the sake of simplicity. Plus, multi-family housing buildings are much less destructive to the environment than 1-4 unit buildings. We choose units that are small and located in walkable areas near public transportation. As a landlord, we provide clean, safe housing at affordable prices. We are always giving our tenants a discount in rent for holidays throughout the year. We even have some tenants on a month to month basis instead of a year lease. We have found that this makes them feel they have more freedom and they will stay longer. We stay active with the management board to make sure that the rules and regulations provide, safe comfortable housing for everyone and that the buildings are being maintained in a responsible manner. When we need to make repairs in the unit, we can use materials that are safe for the tenants and the environment.

After I quit my job, I started with the informational products and selling products. I am not making money at these yet, but I will explain my reason for choosing these and my plan to succeed.

INFORMATIONAL PRODUCTS – This blog is the start of this journey. As I work on this blog, I am also working on ebooks to sell online. What I like about ebooks is that they are not very damaging to the environment and I think that reading is so important for an informed society. It is important to get all points of view and then form your own opinions. Never stop reading and listening to other opinions. Ebooks are cheap, so they don’t cause financial problems for people to buy them and they can provide beneficial lifestyle recommendations (self-improvement), continuous learning (technical subjects) or quality entertainment (novels). To me, these are worthwhile products to purchase and they fit in with a simple, clutter free, healthy life. Plus, it gives me an opportunity to share my knowledge, expertise and positive lifestyle experiences.
SELLING PRODUCTS – This one took me awhile to think about whether I could do this in a conscientious way. I don’t like to encourage people to buy more ‘stuff’, especially when the products are environmentally and socially destructive. I also don’t like to see people waste their money on products that don’t bring any health, wealth or happiness benefits. So, I had to really think about this one and do a ton of research and evaluating. I decided to sell organic skin care products.

First, I came to a realization that most people, especially women, are going to buy skin care products. Secondly, most women are buying products with potentially harmful chemicals to themselves and to their families. It is very hard to find products without at least one harmful chemical ingredient, even in health food stores. I figured if I can help one person switch to a completely chemical free product, then I have done something good. A win-win.

In addition, to the chemicals, below are other reasons why I found this to be a product I could feel good about. These are examples of conscientious thinking when considering different business models, products, services, etc...

-        The products last a long time for less packaging and shipping overall. This is because the organic plant products provide 30% more nutrients for more potency and there are no fillers in the products, so every ingredient is chosen for restorative properties.

-        The company uses fair trade practices and donates to non-profits.

-        The company has won many awards for sustainable packaging for post-consumer recycled content, compostable and recyclable materials, origami folds to avoid toxic glue, and non-toxic ink.

To help assist with marketing the above products and to further help others achieve true health, wealth and happiness, I am also offering my services for freelance work on an hourly or project basis to coach, educate, train, speak and strategize.
I know there are many other ways to create residual income, but the key is to love the process and love the product. But for me, most importantly, is to love people; I only work with products where I am making the most positive impact for people and communities involved in the supply chain, use and disposal phase.

Book recommendations: The Four Hour Work Week, by Timothy Ferriss; Multiple Streams of Income, by Robert G. Allen; any of the Rich Dad books, by Robert and Kim Kiyosaki; ECO-Preneuring, by Lisa Kivirist and John Ivanko.  

Sunday, August 18, 2013

Free Yourself from Cubicle Captivity

I recently watched a movie describing how animals in captivity get sick and die from stress. The stress is usually caused from lack of exercise and a loss of natural habitat and freedom. This feeling was strikingly similar to my days in a cubicle… and why I left the rat race.

First, let me clarify that semi-retiring does not mean just golfing and traveling. It means that I can choose work that satisfies me because I am working because I want to, not because I have to. For you, it might mean that with such little financial obligation, you can work part time at any job you choose. This can take the form of self-employment, part-time employment or full-time employment. The key for me is that I can leave a job at any time, which makes it more enjoyable to work. I am not stuck anymore.

How do we do this? It is simple: reduce consumption.

Our current consumption patterns are unsustainable. Over-consuming undermines our health, wealth and pursuit of happiness, not to mention it is detrimental to the environment. If you want to learn more about how consumerism breeds discontent and about the negative consequences to the environment, I have listed several resources at the bottom of this post. However, this post is intended to stay positive and highlight how to optimize health, wealth and happiness first, and then the environmental benefits will follow.

Reducing consumption does not mean depravation, but rather freedom: time freedom, intellectual freedom and emotional freedom. 

-        Time freedom: when we cut our expenses and don’t over-consume, then we have the opportunity to cut back on working hours, or stop working altogether with enough residual income or savings. We don’t need nearly as much in the bank if we don’t have an expensive lifestyle. Even if we love our jobs and don’t want to cut back now, we can create a safety net for the future, just in case.

-        Intellectual freedom: When we practice conscious consumerism, our entertainment can actually be higher quality. We can take up stimulating pursuits such as writing, learning a language/subject or playing a musical instrument; join peer groups for intellectual conversation; start a garden and learn to cook.

-        Emotional freedom: When we free ourselves from all the clutter, and adopt a minimalist lifestyle, we have the time to focus on what is truly important in life and we gain back emotional balance. The focus is on family, friends, volunteering and community.

HOW TO SLASH EXPENSES

I recommend everyone seek out minimalism. Regardless of how much money is being made, or whether a person loves their job, this will provide an opportunity to build an investment fund, eliminate debt and enjoy the benefits of a simpler lifestyle.

The first place I started was to get rid of cable. It is not just an unnecessary expense, but an unhealthy expense. Regardless of the money, I am better off without it. (See my previous post on TV)

Second, I started looking at all my monthly expenses to determine which ones were really necessary for true health and happiness. Some were outright bad for me. I asked myself some simple questions. Do you need both a land line and a cell phone? Do you really need internet access at home when you can go to a coffee shop or the library for free? Is it wise to get manicures and highlights with all the chemicals? Do you really need the latest gadgets? Can you donate clothes that need to be dry-cleaned? Do you eat out too much? Can you move to a smaller, cheaper house/apt or get a roommate? Can you use your car less or sell it completely? (See previous post about going car-free)

Try to go without buying anything new for 6 months. Go to the library to borrow free books, movies and music CDs. Try to be satisfied with clothes and shoes that you have already purchased.

I know this may appear harsh at first and maybe even like being deprived, but in reality, wealth aside, many of these things are standing in the way of achieving true health and happiness. Once you dive in, you will feel a tremendous sense of freedom and content. As for wealth, each person needs to really contemplate and decide if they want ‘stuff’ or freedom from wage slavery.

I made my choice. I chose freedom.

Now, I know that I will be working because I want to be working, not because I have to be working.

This is how I got there…

I made a list of all my expenses and then put them into these categories: (1) Necessities (food, clothing, transportation, housing); (2) Entertainment and recreation; (3) Expenses that are necessary for work (dry-cleaning, owning a car, parking); (4) Expenses incurred because of lack of time (gardener, maid service, convenience food).

I started cutting costs wherever I could while working and then I planned on the additional costs that could be cut once I quit my job. I realized that to live a prosperous and better life, I should actually eliminate most of the costs associated with items 2-4. In addition, I was able to keep costs in item #1 within the amount of money that I was getting from rental properties. So… I decided I could quit my job. What a freeing feeling!

Now, the wealth benefits to cost cutting are obvious, but there are some areas where my simple lifestyle added to my health and happiness. I want to re-emphasize that this is not depravation, but rather an increase in my quality of life!

-        I started eating cleaner, which means less eating out and packaged food. I lost weight, gained energy, and have radiant skin.

-        I have a closet full of clothes and shoes, so I don’t need to go shopping. I donated most of my clothes that need to be dry cleaned. Even before I quit, I did the majority of my shopping at thrift stores and always got compliments on my clothes.

-        My favorite entertainment has always been reading, watching movies and writing. I also find free yoga, meditation and other classes at the library. There are many free days at museums and free outdoor concerts that I seek out.

-        My favorite recreation has always consisted of walking, running, biking, hiking and swimming. All free to me with minimal equipment needed. These simple activities can really have a hypnotic effect, like meditation. Plus, it gets me outdoors.

-        I started going car-lite while working to save on gas and parking and then I sold my car after I quit my job. I have lost weight, increased muscle tone and have bounds of energy. I now get up to two hours (sometimes more) of physical exercise every day. I love it!

-        I still donate money to good causes especially when a friend is fund-raising, but I found volunteering my time to be much more fulfilling. Plus, conscious consumerism minimizes or eliminates harm to other people and the planet, which is much more effective than philanthropy.

-        Now that I have freedom, I don’t have the burning desire to travel four times a year like I did in the past. I still like to travel, but I intend to find opportunities to go places for 6 months at a time and do this only once every 2 years or so. That will greatly cut down on the stress of constant travel and it will allow me to slow down and really experience the cultures that I intend to visit, not to mention, cut down on the pollution from travel!

With these strategies, I was able to minimize my costs to under $1,000 per month. There is nothing that I am lacking. In fact, I have a more fulfilling and abundant life than before. I am more content than I have ever been. Even though I have enough rental income to cover my expenses at this time, I am still working on creative pursuits to build more residual income so that my partner can semi-retire and travel with me. I still love to work, but now work is on my terms.  

Recommended resources:


“Your Money or Your Life”, by Vicky Robin and Joe Dominguez

“Affluenza”, by John DeGraf and David Wann

“The Overspent American”, by Juliet Schor

“I AM” documentary, by Tom Shadyac


 

Sunday, August 11, 2013

Why the 40 Hour Work Week is Not Sustainable

I personally don’t think that the 40 hour work week is sustainable from a health, wealth and happiness perspective. Well, not for me, anyway. Additionally, as we start working over about 20 hours per week, our environmental footprint is substantially increased.

If you want more opinions on this topic, just type "the 21 hour work week" into an internet browser and you will get a wealth of information. This, however, is my story.
When I was working a regular 40 hour week job, I was always stressed and in a hurry. I wasn’t really content and didn’t feel that I had proper balance. First, for me, in addition to the 40-hours of work that I had to put in, I had an additional 5-10 hours per week of commuting and getting ready for work. I never felt that I was ‘catching up’ on my sleep, which I now understand never happens anyway. You can’t really ‘catch up’, you need proper sleep every day. I hated the feeling of being jolted out of a deep sleep by my alarm. It never felt natural. I would drag myself out of bed while it was still dark and then rush around in the morning to get on the road before traffic hits. Then, when I left the office after sitting for 9 hours, I had to sit in traffic. The frustration and feelings of restlessness were getting worse and worse every day. Even when I worked from home, I might not have the commute, but I was still jolted out of bed every morning and I felt chained to my computer for far too long every day. Caffeine was my energy source. This was a very unsustainable cycle for me.

My 40 hour a week job did come with a big salary and great perks, but at what time cost? We can always make more money, but we can’t ever get back lost time. And, what fun is a lot of money without good health? To me, this didn't really seem like what most people would consider 'success' or 'the good life'.
I decided I had had enough and I quit my job for other reasons, but one thing that I do know, is that now I have experienced true freedom. With this taste of freedom, I do not want another 40-hour-a-week-chained-to-a-computer-sitting-in-a-cubicle job for a very long time. I need a break and that is why I decided to semi-retire at 39. Note, that I call this being semi-retired. I am not planning to just golf and travel, but I do have the flexibility, to pursue more meaningful work while keeping a healthy work/life balance for optimum health, wealth and happiness.     

What would you do if you had an extra 20 hours a week to yourself?
For me, I was able to sell my car because I now have the time freedom to bike, walk and take public transportation wherever I need to go. That was one of the most freeing feelings for me, and no more traffic jams!

I am also able to go to Farmers Markets four times a week to buy fresh foods and take the time to prepare meals from scratch. This means less packaging waste and no chemicals to be concerned about.
I regularly get in two or more hours of physical activity every day. I take long, relaxing walks. I get to stay up late and sleep in if I want. I don’t use an alarm clock. I quit caffeine.

I am able to pursue my passions and work on independent projects for future income potential. I work when I am feeling creative, and I don’t if I am not. I don’t have to watch a clock and look busy when my work is done.
I get adequate sunshine and fresh air every day. I get to nap. I meditate. I read… a lot. I write every day. I always have a clean, neat house. I’m never in a hurry.

My stress level has plummeted to a level of contentment that I don’t think I have ever felt in my life. I have realized that it is the simple things in life that make me happy. This is success. I am living the rich life now (see previous post).
So, how did I get here? It is a very simple formula: Start slashing expenses and building up residual income. That’s it. The next post I will first talk about reducing expenses and then the second post will be about creating residual income.

I recommend visiting the website “Center for a New American Dream: More of What Matters”: www.newdream.org
I also recommend “The Joy of Not Working” and “How to Retire Happy, Wild and Free” by Ernie Zelinski

 

Thursday, August 8, 2013

Turning off the cable TV…

I have been cable free for one year now and I love it! There were a few reasons why I decided to rid myself of this addiction:  I felt that it was dumbing me down; every program seemed to be a “reality” program of some sort with so much drama and negativity, not to mention ‘staged’; I felt that I was on the couch too much instead of exercising or cleaning; I sometimes even found myself revolving my schedule around certain shows.

So, I thought, why would I actually pay someone to dumb me down, put confrontation in front of me, and reduce my time available for exercise, household chores, and creative pursuits?!?!? 

When I first got rid of cable, I still had access to the basic TV stations, so I was still able to watch the news (filled with negativity, sensationalism and fear), PBS (not much to complain about there) and a few of my favorite sitcoms (hey, laughter is healthy!). However, I still found myself on the couch with the TV on most of the time, even if I was doing something else like writing or reading. Well, one day, the basic channels just disappeared. I didn’t do any investigation to find out why or try to remedy the situation. Instead I took it as an opportunity to go completely without TV.

Well, the first few days, I admit, were kind of strange. I found that to be an incredible revelation to realize how much TV had become a part of my life… wow. The silence was very strange at first. I realized that the reason that I always had the TV on, was to have the background noise. Maybe this was an attempt to feel less lonely? Maybe I wanted to live through the lives of the characters on TV, even though there is no “reality” about it? So, to combat this feeling of loneliness, and maybe even boredom, I started walking, running and bicycling, a lot. I started getting to know my neighbors better and talking with them more. I spent much more time cleaning and gardening. I started walking to the grocery store and riding my bike to the library. I started reading a ton of informational non-fiction, some weeks I might have read up to four books.

I was saving over $100 per month, plus saving on the cost of gas since I had more time to walk, run or bike my errands. Plus, I realized that I can get free movies, documentaries and even my favorite sitcoms at the library, so if I got the urge for TV time, I could find quality programs and watch them on my schedule. I also started listening to the public radio station more often, which aired very unique and high quality music and talk shows. This had a bit of a snowball effect, because when I started realizing some of the unnecessary, and quite frankly unhealthy, financial drains of our modern culture, I was able to find many other ways to reduce my expenses to the point where I could semi-retire before 40. I will elaborate more on that in another post.

All of a sudden, I found myself with a clean, neat house and yard, a lot more free time for creative pursuit, leisure time with friends and neighbors and an overall feeling of improved energy, finances and content, or should we say improved health, wealth and happiness. It was the best decision I ever made, well, tied with selling my car (see previous post).

[I want to digress for a moment and mention that during this initial time of no TV, I also did not have personal internet access. I had a smart phone for work which gave me internet access to work from home, but I did not use it for personal use. I think that was the key to becoming more physically active and engage in more reading. If I had internet, I might have found myself sitting on the couch just as much and not doing much reading of actual books. Internet can be a real drain if you let it, but it can be incredibly useful tool also. Internet can also be an unnecessary expense considering there are so many free options, but more on this topic in another post. ]

So, back to the present…. when I decided to quit my job and move to another state where my partner was working, I begged him not to get cable TV or even the local channels. He agreed that it was the best for both of us. We do have a very small TV, probably 13 inches, and we do watch documentaries and movies from the library. I still sometimes find myself putting a good documentary on for background noise, but hey, it is a process and I am on my way to TV addiction recovery!

A note on the environment: Electronics are very hard on the environment and we are consuming them at such a fast rate as technology gets better and products get cheaper. There are problems along the entire life cycle from extraction of the resources to the constant energy draw from use, to the disposal. When we start realizing the benefits of less electronics in our lives, as described in this post, then we will also be helping to alleviate environmental problems.

I understand that some people may not want to go entirely without cable TV, however, do we really need a TV in every room? Families would reduce time spent watching TV and gain much more family time if they all shared only one TV and chose quality programming to watch together.

Sunday, August 4, 2013

Why I Ditched the Car and Regained My Youthful Freedom

Most of us equate owning a car as having ‘freedom’: freedom to go where we want, when we want. We couldn’t wait to turn 16, to have the freedom to drive ourselves where we wanted to go instead of rely on our parents or older siblings. That was the ultimate feeling of getting close to adulthood. Well, what we failed to realize, was that in most situations, it was mom and dad that made that ‘freedom’ possible. Even if we had to pay for gas and insurance, we most likely borrowed a car from our parents. Even if someone did save up money to buy their own car, it was usually because at 16, a person typically doesn’t have many other bills such as rent, groceries or utilities. However, fast forward to college graduation and everything changes. That same car that symbolized freedom now has many of us chained to a 40 hour a week job with no real true freedom in our schedules. We are given an hour lunch, and some of us may be lucky to get four weeks of vacation per year, but only to be used with permission from the boss. Is this really freedom? I prefer another kind of freedom: the freedom that comes from giving up a car. I recently sold my car and, along with getting rid of many other unnecessary expenses in my life, I was able to feel comfortable to quit my job and pursue the things that I really want to do in life. But most importantly, I wanted to take back freedom of my schedule. In future posts, I will go into more detail about how I downsized my life in other ways for a truly freeing feeling and how to pursue residual income so that you will not feel obligated to have a car for a ‘job’. And if you do like your job, or are not ready to leave yet, this post will highlight how going car free does not mean sacrifice or less money earned, but rather how it provides tremendous benefits to our optimization of health, wealth and happiness. 

First off, as stated in previous posts, this blog is not about reducing our environmental impact, but rather obtaining a higher quality of life, through the simplicity concept, which will naturally have us treading lighter on the planet.

With that said, however, I feel it is necessary to point out that, driving use aside, the physical roads themselves are an environmental and human health nightmare, from destruction of ecosystems and habitats, to incredible amounts of pollution (water/air/noise/light) and a runaway urban heat island effect. Not to mention the excessive embedded energy, water and waste contents.  I won’t go into the details, but you can do an internet search for “environmental impact of roads” for more information. Secondly, the manufacturing and disposal of vehicles, even the supposedly “eco friendly” hybrids and electric vehicles, is also completely unsustainable and we are nowhere near a solution to reduce the environmental and social impacts of this process.  That is why this post is about going car-free or car-lite, not just trading your hummer for a hybrid, while your driving habits stay the same. Technology will not bring us eco-bliss, behavior changes will. To be truly sustainable, we need to reduce the miles driven and put more drivers into each car, rather than worry about miles per gallon. If we can achieve this, then we might be able to reduce sprawl, abandon roads and restore habitats.
[Note: For brevity, I will use car-free for the remainder of the post, but for all practical purposes it is interchangeable with car-lite and that might be a more reasonable balance for most people anyway.]

So, with the environmental acknowledgment out of the way, let’s talk about how going car-free can bring about a more care-free life for optimum health, wealth and happiness.  

Going car free has a tremendous benefit to our health. Probably the most beneficial and obvious is that we can get more exercise by walking, biking or running in place of using a car. I have only been car-free for a month and my boyfriend already notices that I lost weight and toned up! Also, I have no stress from long commutes or traffic jams. Instead, I am getting fresh air, sunlight and exercise, which makes me feel great! Carpoolers are also much less likely to have traffic related stress because they are engaged in friendly conversation. Lastly, and sadly, a car accident can take away your freedom of personal mobility in the near term, or possibly even for life.
Going car free can be an excellent path to financial independence! The typical yearly maintenance costs associated with owning a car can run upwards of several thousands of dollars. That does not even take into account the car payments or depreciation.  Accidents also cost a lot with the obvious insurance deductibles, but there could also be lost productivity time which can cost money, whether missing work for an employer or even if you are self-employed. Walking, biking or running as a way to commute can save on monthly gym fees, diet supplements and personal trainers. This improved health also means money saved on medical expenses in the long term. The worst financial pitfall of car ownership though can sometimes be the spontaneous shopping that takes place with the convenience of a car. If we have a whim to buy something, we can just hop in the car and go. Additionally, cars make us more likely to shop at big box stores, rather than a quaint mom and pop shop on Main Street, so there is the added enticement to purchase more 'stuff' than intended. This can be a huge drain on the wallet. Since I am car-free, I really need to plan my purchases, which means less impulse purchasing and better budgeting. Lastly, roads cost local governments a lot of money to maintain, so certain municipalities are now considering taxing drivers by miles driven, so preparing now for car-free living, could be money ahead in the future.  

The added exercise while commuting keeps us happy because endorphins are released and because we are getting fresh air and sunshine. But, the real benefit, in my opinion, is no road rage! Getting exercise while we commute also provides a huge time savings advantage because we are completing two necessary tasks at once. This gives an instant productivity boost to our days! Also, when we get out of the car, we spend more time aware of our surroundings and in the present moment. We may also get to know our neighbors better since we are not isolated in a car. Lastly, commuting by bike and foot reminds me of my playful, care-free childhood days.
So, with this said, why are we so fascinated and tethered to our cars? Why do we use cars to ‘identify’ ourselves? Have cars created an unintended ‘busyness’ that is unsustainable? For true health, wealth and happiness, we need to think outside the metal box.

If you want more in depth strategies on going car-free, I highly recommend the book "How to Live Well Without Owning a Car", by Chris Balish.